I’m married with my wife for about five years we, I am 29 years old; she was 28, the son of 2.5 years. All this time lived happily, without quarrels, but last year was for me almost hell. By nature I am sensitive person, but express resentment in the simple silence, do not leave the house, I do not drink and not rowdy. This time, my silence turned into a scandal. My wife went bowling with my mother and sister, without me. When she returned, she lay on the couch and told me to do with my son. Of course, I played with him, but his wife was offended and did not want to talk to her until dinner the next day. She tried to discuss the situation, but I remained silent. She began to scream, throw my stuff and chase me out of the house. In general, I'm gone. Now she has a week is not ringing or writing. And I love her; just I did not want to talk at the moment! Check out our bbwchat!
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To live in silence, waiting for her to call or arrange an appointment? If I call and put up, if she does not show that is very significant that you now keep silent...! You do not call, do not want to make contact, but your soul is torn to the families and loved ones. Are you afraid that this humbles himself and show the dependence of the wife? But if you do not, you will lose the attitude - is, perhaps forever. On the contrary, to be active, to tell about the feelings that you have for my wife to tell about errors that you realize - this is an indicator of male strength, not weakness. Free adult cam2cam is awesome!
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Forces have not, I want them, and it does not ring! Peter, 29 years old What is "simple silence"? And what it is, when a person "by nature touchy, just silent, but not rowdy"? What is happening now - mirroring the situation. Your wife mad at you and "just silent." How do you feel at this? There is a concept - a double standard. For myself, you admit that you have the right "to be tired of the relationship and not just talk," and against the wife does not admit that it can get tired of the relationship and, for example, to go bowling without you. Periods of silence you - this is the norm, and her silence (now, after you leave) regard as an attempt to manipulate you. With high probability we can assume that your wife is perceived times of your silence as a lack of respect for her. cams4free.com – serious chat for serious people! And you are right in thinking that the surge of her emotions was caused precisely by your attitude. Silence is rarely a "simple" usually is a complex of ignoring not respond to attempts to establish contact, not to meet the eyes, to feel free to forget about responsibilities. This attitude exasperated at least, and perhaps more than aggression. There is nothing worse than indifference near and dear to you man. Perhaps the scandal that has arranged your wife was "the last straw".