During my practice, I have not once addressed the women who were dissatisfied with the relations in the family. I always wonder if there is already a woman threatened departure, separation or divorce. In the majority of cases it turns out that, yes. To the question "Do you really want to leave?" Should be answered: "Of course not!" The logical question: "Then why say that?" Introduces clients to confusion. Women understand that it is not necessary to do so, but I still do. And not only women but also men. The fact that in this case it is an attempt to influence. Want to have some fun? Visit our cam2cam live chat site!
Keep it simply - manipulation
Manipulation - a psychological impact with emotions (feelings) partner to obtain benefits. What can be used the threat of parting? For anything! From the "If you do not wash the dishes, I ..." to "We're going on vacation to the sea, I want to, and if not, then ...". All this is quite rude and blunt. Browse nothing behind this manipulation, "Do as I command, and then ...". The psychological effect is a blow to love through guilt. Remember, a child's parents said: "If you do not behave, I'm gone?" Sometimes it reported where it is, and sometimes just assumed that this place will be a distant and "bad" child unavailable. If you look deeper, you can hear in these words: "I do not like this, you are. You can visit free trannycam if you looking for something special!
I will leave you, if you are not going the way I want to see you
Parents manipulated affection child, his deepest fear - to be abandoned, useless, unloved. This fear is so ingrained that it is not difficult to find. That hit him grown up boys and girls, knowing how much it hurts. I am hoping to be able to manage partner through fear of relationships. But what an unpleasant surprise awaits experienced manipulators in some time! For the first time, "I go to mum" or "otherwise divorce" is taken seriously - there is a topic for conversation, there are trade-offs. Sexy asiancams is the place where dreams come true! If it was a manipulation - bingo! - One understands where there is a button that allows you to not only run the desired behavior, but also to feel loved. If you go to the victim, you need a means to you. Striking the fear of loss of love, a provocateur receives confirmation of its valuable status - "love you." After that, the temptation to repeat the trick appears again and again.