Staying friends after an affair? What does she want?

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The concept of staying friends after the collapse of a romantic relationship has been around for a while now and this proposition has its pros and cons depending upon the nature of your breakup, your emotional stability, and your ex-partners emotional stability. So if you are wondering what your former partner wants when she insists on staying friends after an affair, this article could very well help you find the answers. Read further to know more in our adult webcamchat blog.

Don’t Do it if you don’t want to

Feelings are fluid and they very well might change over the course of time but if your ex wants you to have purely friendly and platonic feeling towards her even after the collapse of a relationship that was anything but platonic; friendly feelings may not manifest themselves so easily or quickly. In other words, you do not have to be friends if you are incapable of friendly feelings. Relationships and affairs come to an end for a number of reasons and in some cases, you might very well be the wronged party. Your ex could be trying to assuage her guilt by giving you the consolation prize of a friendship straight after a breakup. Your sense of self-worth should tell you that this is a consolation prize you do not accept.

Latent Hopes for a Makeup

Often time’s people find it difficult to let go and would rather change the nature of a relationship than break it off altogether. This desire can be indicative of latent hopes for reconciliation and it is your duty to be perceptive enough and dispel these hopes if you do not see chances of reconciliation. Do not feel guilty about moving away in such circumstances or give into the fear of causing your ex-pain and distress because it is set in stone that she will be much more hurt and distressed when you move on with your with love life. Not agreeing to any such friendship is the kindest thing to do in the long run.

Remain friends; if there are Merits and Benefits to doing so

Often times it is important to remain friends even after the collapse of a relationship but this is purely circumstantial. Many couples start off as great friends and continue to share mutual friends even after a breakup. If she is a regular feature of your social life and you are compelled to see her often; both she and yourself are taking the high road by remaining friends even after the collapse of a relationship. In such circumstances, it would be necessary to maintain a courteous and genuinely amicable relationship. It will take time but if your common friends are worth it then you might just have to put in the effort. Do not forget that she is making the same effort as you. The same applies to cases in which exes share the same workspace. Civility and amicability are of paramount importance. You both might just have to fake a friendship till you actually get there.

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